I informed this man something along the lines of “not to be a geek or anything yet exactly how would certainly you really feel concerning obtaining checked with me? It would certainly make me really feel a lot more comfy with you, sexually” I think I was simply being functional esp because this man whined regarding putting on prophylactics … He obtained mad as well as protective and also stated I angered him and also essentially “destroyed” our brand-new connection by also asking him the concern in any way due to the fact that it suggests I wear'' t count on him. I attempted my finest to discuss that I simply wished to be risk-free as well as count on is something that requires to be developed, imo, however he maintained stating I ought to trust his word as well as he never ever asks any person to obtain checked blah I was actually muddle-headed bc it simply appears so … ill-advised to me. I truly wear'' t assume he required to take it so directly yet I'' m interested what other individuals would certainly claim? Is it truly a disrespectful point to ask?
