I’m a 33 years of age independent lady. I have an excellent task, I believe I’m suitable looking, individuals claim I’m pleasant as well as trusting, and so on. Nonetheless, when it concerns dating, I’m constantly # 2 as well as I do not understand why.
The other day, I had a wedded colleague (33m) message me. I recognize he’s had a crush on me considering that prior to he obtained wed. I’ll capture him gazing, he’ll come near my workdesk to ask stupid concerns, tease, and so on. He constantly attempts to obtain points to advance even more. He also lied/hid his involvement from me for 6 months! I understand he has no intent of leaving his partner since we’ve been interacting considering that prior to he wed her and also he would not have actually completed weding her if he absolutely desired something with me. So I seem like he wishes to make me simply the OW.
After that, my ex lover (32m) from secondary school messaged me out of no place on Facebook and also attempted to obtain me to have phone sex with him. He’s wed with 2 youngsters !!
These are 2 current instances, yet why does this maintain occurring? Does anybody have any kind of recommendations? I’m 33 and also am tired of this. I wish to obtain wed as well as begin a family members, however I evidently maintain bring in the incorrect individuals as well as do not recognize what I’m doing incorrect!
I recognize he’s had a crush on me given that prior to he obtained wed. He constantly attempts to obtain points to advance additionally. I recognize he has no intent of leaving his spouse due to the fact that we’ve been functioning with each other given that prior to he wed her as well as he would not have actually gone via with weding her if he absolutely desired something with me.