My (42F) sweetheart (43M) of 4 months damaged up with me today, specifying that he does not see points obtaining much more significant in between us. We had actually specified the connection (boyfriend/girlfriend) at the 2-month mark as well as have actually continually been seeing each various other two times a week because we satisfied. I had actually noticed him retreating a little bit, so while this really did not come as a total shock, I’m quite bummed due to the fact that I actually appreciated our time with each other as well as was confident for a future with him. He shared that he delights in hanging out with me and also is brought in to me, however has actually been seeming like something is missing out on. This is genuinely the very first healthy and balanced partnership I’ve remained in, so I’m uncertain just how to set about overcoming a person I really felt great and also secure as well as satisfied with. When previous partnerships have actually finished, I had the ability to review the unfavorable elements and also understand that I’m far better off, however he’s a terrific man as well as I’m simply depressing that he’s no more mosting likely to remain in my life. Any type of words of advice/commiseration?