UPDATE: i will certainly NOT be seeing him once more. i’ve telephoned him and also allow him recognize that we can not go after anything even more, as a result of his very own activities. many thanks to everybody for the suggestions.
so i (f, 18) fulfilled this man (m26) & i’ll call him ben, for this article, on a lot of fish.
ben as well as i would certainly debate and also onward on the phone for concerning a week prior to he asked me on a day, which i approved. we prepared to have supper and also see a motion picture.
ben selected me up and also while on our means to the dining establishment, there was this person driving beside us and also made it look like he wished to race (i’m presuming from the sort of automobile he and also ben had, i’m not large on vehicles however i understand they both were stylish kind.)
long tale brief. the various other person beat ben as well as i giggled. not at ben however bc the mini race was enjoyable. ben needs to’ve thought i was poking fun at him and also from there he treated me impolite. i seemed like from the start he would certainly attempt to do points to excite me (like discuss just how much cash he made, his work, the number of women he dated/slept with … you recognize points that aren’t ideal to discuss with a lady you’re attempting to obtain with, however whatever) or he would certainly act extremely contemptuous, like he was actually recompensing for something. i cleaned all of it off.
at supper as were delegating the cars and truck as well as having a discussion, i neglected it’s totality however i remember him stating something to the affect of “yeah like you wished to draw that individual’s penis from the roadway) describing the person he competed as well as shed to. i asked him to take me house since he was being discourteous and also i really did not intend to proceed the day.
he obtained dismayed concerning that as well as pushed me versus his vehicle’s guest door & howled in my face. informed me he was gon na make me really feel dumb as well as self-conscious like i apparently attempted to make him really feel. prior to leaving me there in the parking area, he placed his hand up my tee shirt as well as searched my busts.
i did really feel truly dumb later on. i asked for a lyft and also went residence. the other day he texted me satisfied thanksgiving and also asked to see me due to the fact that he intended to excuse his habits. i met him today prior to job. he essentially stated i made him really feel some sort of method and so on (essentially his vanity was wounded) i asked forgiveness to him for making him really feel in this way. he stated he desires a correct. i concurred however what can i do to make certain something similar to this does not take place in between us once again?