I (33F) simply uncovered the term stealthing after it took place to me. A man (30M) I would certainly been seeing for a couple of weeks and also I determined to make love. We had actually done so as soon as prior to where I asked him to make use of a prophylactic and also he never ever ended up that time (I currently think as a result of the prophylactic). This previous time I once more asked him to place on a prophylactic. When he turned me over for dog, he took the prophylactic off. I did not recognize up until he began my back. I remained in shock in the minute and also really did not actually anger, yet simply asked him if he was STD totally free, when the last time he obtained evaluated was, as well as if he’s certain he took out in time.
This person had actually been 100% excellent till this. Constantly a gent in every means – strolling me almost everywhere, waiting approximately ensure I obtain house ok despite the fact that I’m a hr repel, never ever existing and also simply informing me what I desired ti listen to when I asked him hard concerns (l asked him if he was trying to find anything significant as well as he claimed he does not understand; I seem like a great deal of people have actually informed me yes prior to when they in fact weren’t simply to enter my trousers), and so on.
Is this set stealthing occurrence a dealbreaker? Or am I being also severe? I indicate, it had actually never ever taken place to me prior to, however I’m not gon na exist, it’s not a fantastic sensation – I seem like I chose to wish to have secure sex and also he took that choice making power far from me by doing sex the means he desired as well as not what I desired