I (46f) lately went back to OLD after years away. I had 2 coffee days, completely enjoyable however platonic, and also a 3rd one that left me seeming like a gruesome hag.
When I got here, he had the strangest view on his face. Not one of interest or perhaps frustration, however virtually … shock or scary. Currently, I’m not a traditional elegance, however I’m likewise not a mangled dirty sea hag with greatly doctored images.
As the day advanced, I really felt an increasing number of unpleasant, as if I had bird droppings on my shoulder, a chunk of kale in my teeth, as well as pet crap on my footwear. He appeared horrified by every little thing I stated. He finished the day after 45 mins, a lot to my alleviation. (I examined after he left – no crap or kale on me!)
Later on I obtained a (completely unneeded) message clarifying that we aren’t a charming suit.
The day was so odd, disturbing. I’ve never ever had this sensation, a feeling of being looked at and also located gross or undesirable to a complete stranger.
Uncertain exactly how to rebound from this set … (unintentionally marked with the Giving Advice panache however I really would value suggestions.)