This might seem dumb due to the fact that everybody is various as well as we are originating from various societies yet just how do I manage this?
My gf(24F) of 5 years, is still in institution she has 2 even more years at SF state college. I(29M) finished a year ago as well as work for the last 11 month that pays me around 80k a year.
We stay in Oakland, California, so 80k is not a whole lot. My rental fee is $1900, with vehicle parking as well as energies it will certainly come near $2200 as well as we are preparing to relocate with each other in January.
So I asked my gf to contribute $500 given that she is a pupil. However she states she will not pay it, because she will certainly do washing, food preparation as well as cleansing.(I really did not ask for it) Now I’m a spick-and-span individual as well as like to maintain points neat myself that’s the factor I survive my very own and also pay practically fifty percent of revenue my for lease to prevent unpleasant flatmates.
Her debates are: “It’s so stupid, I dislike males such as this that can not deal with their family members”, “just how am I mosting likely to trust you when I have a child”, “you are such a weirdo”, “you need to be a guy, you work”. What do I do? It’s simply amusing to see her stating every one of these points.