I’ve been dating my guy for over 9 months currently. I commemorated my birthday celebration a pair days earlier, as well as my (25f) partner (22m) took me bent on supper and also view a motion picture to commemorate it beforehand considering that he would certainly be active on my real birthday celebration. It was a wonderful day as well as I truly valued it.
Simply a backstory: For his birthday celebration a pair months back, I got him presents that I place a lot idea as well as initiative right into, as well as I truly intended to obtain him something I recognize he would certainly like.
I likewise shared to him with arbitrary discussions that I do not count food/abstract points as presents from my loved ones due to the fact that I’m a truly nostalgic individual when it involves items. I enjoy maintaining points like flick tickets and also arbitrary fallen leaves as well as points that have considerable definition to me.
Anyhow back to the tale. So I was beginning to obtain a sixth sense that he really did not obtain me anything due to the fact that days have actually passed because my birthday celebration. So I amusingly raised asking where my present is, considering that he revealed me an image of a watch he simply purchased for himself as a very early xmases present. When I brought it up, he stated “idk what to obtain you.” When he claimed that, I really felt depressing due to the fact that it seemed like he really did not recognize me in any way. Why does he require to ask me? I place a lot idea as well as initiative right into his birthday celebration present.
When I shared to him that I really felt poor when he claimed that, he exploded on me and also stated I was “fucking ruined” and also it’s like I do not also see things he provides for me. He stated that our supper day was my birthday celebration present as well as regrettable for me if I desired even more than that. He was simply blasting me and also criticizing me for “making it a huge bargain.” Just how do I manage this circumstance?
tldr; my sweetheart really did not obtain me a birthday celebration present due to the fact that he considered our supper day his birthday celebration present as well as I really felt negative concerning him not providing me a present so he called me ruined.
I additionally revealed to him via arbitrary discussions that I do not count food/abstract points as presents from my considerable others due to the fact that I’m a truly nostalgic individual when it comes to things. I amusingly brought up asking where my present is, considering that he revealed me a picture of a watch he simply acquired for himself as a very early xmases present. He stated that our supper day was my birthday celebration present and also as well negative for me if I desired even more than that.