Whenever my (M22) companion (F23) and also I smoke weed, she allows a great deal of points out that I do not assume she implies to allow out. She will certainly trauma dump without also understand and also in some cases I’m resting there for 1-2 hrs simply paying attention to her me, which I do not mind, I’m right here to pay attention. And also occasionally state extremely individual disclosing points that I assume she might be sorry for claiming later on. Yet she can additionally state painful points also.
For instance, she understands my weight has actually constantly been a topic of harassing for me all my life, and also she saw a lot of small delicious chocolates in my cabinet. I described that I have 1 every evening or 2 (they are coin dimension) and also it removes my sugar yearning after supper when I would certainly or else worsen choices. When she discovered them her action was “this is why you were fat your entire life”
More just recently, I opened regarding just how I was clinically depressed and also it was tough to awaken in the early morning etc. She asked me I would certainly ever before grumble at a convenience food dining establishment regarding an incorrect dish. My reaction was “just if I’m damaged as well as having a dreadful day.” To which she stated “well you’re currently damaged as well as you plainly have a great deal of negative days just recently”
Both times I simply giggled it off since having a battle while high is absolutely not something I intend to do, yet it most definitely injures. There’s been even more, yet tiny circumstances extremely comparable.
Exactly how do I divide that she is to what she claims while high? Am I legitimate to be distressed despite the fact that I can not actually hold her to what she claims intoxicated?
For context she smokes with me possibly two times a week.
TLDR: my companion states hurtful/insensitive points to me when she’s high. She additionally claims a great deal of points she might not indicate to state. Exactly how do I not take it as directly and also divide that she is while she’s high to her usually?
Edit: thanks everybody. It’s provided me great deals to consider … I truly value it.
My companion claims upsetting points when she’s high as well as does not recognize it. And also often claim extremely individual exposing points that I assume she might be sorry for stating later on. TLDR: my companion states hurtful/insensitive points to me when she’s high. She likewise states a great deal of points she might not suggest to state.