After a couple of months of constant battling over that does what in our connection my hubby assembled a notes doc with policies for our marital relationship, an instance of these being:
Me to prepare supper M, T, W, Th Him to prepare supper Fri, Sat, Sun Person that does not prepare, cleanses Days for that takes care of our boys (2M) evening time regular Days for that feeds as well as strolls the canine Guidelines on just how much sex we ought to have Guidelines on just how typically we ought to have day evenings
At initial I assumed this was excellent! Lastly he can see all the undetected job I do taking care of our boy, pet and also residence as well as we can divide it much more equally (I additionally function).
Today, this previous week he hasn’t done half his jobs. He pertains to me claiming oh we have not made love this weekend break as well as we require to follow this. Look, I’m all for organizing sex as unsexy as it is since we have a young child BUT a huge factor we’ve been dealing with is since I’m so worn down from doing all the undetected kid rearing, household chores as well as operating at the exact same time, so to be fairly Frank I do not seem like sex at the end of the day. If he had actually of done his jobs I ‘d possibly be much less worn down and also much more eager.
I do not recognize what I’m asking right here yet is it poor I’m not following my end of the deal if he really did not satisfy his? He can not have his cake as well as consume it also. I require guidance on exactly how to manage this. I have actually connected this as well as he obtained pissed off as well as opted for a snooze.
Tl: dr spouse made jobs list yet appears to just anticipate me to follow it.