First allow me state I do not understand that ghosting is the best word to utilize in this instance. I (35F) VERY quickly spoke with a man “J” (37M) on Tinder in very early summer season. I do not assume it can have been anymore than a number of days, after that we transferred to message where we just traded 3 or 4 messages.
(Edited for clearness) At that very same time, I began dating a person and also obtained drawn right into an entire charming speedy. Meantime, no interaction from J for a month. Recalling, I keep in mind J sending me 2 actually basic “hi” messages after the month had actually passed. I never ever reacted due to the fact that I remained in deep with this brand-new fella.
So I simply registered for Tinder once again as well as J’s account is just one of the firsts I see. I assumed, “I keep in mind speaking to him, yet what occurred!?” Then I looked his name in my messages as well as yada yada.
Is it up for grabs to connect to him through message? The excellent as well as negative point, I think, is that we never ever satisfied personally and also really did not have some extensive exchange of interaction. Yet, for whatever factor, there was something concerning him that I located appealing as well as still discover him extremely eye-catching.
If I do connect, I believe I ‘d likely wish to recognize my diminishing the face of the planet and also wishing to reconnect.
What do you believe? Should I allow it go or provide it a shot?
Looking back, I keep in mind J sending me 2 actually basic “hi” messages after the month had actually passed. I simply authorized up for Tinder once more as well as J’s account is one of the firsts I see. Is it reasonable video game to get to out to him using message?