Boyfriend (32M)has quite a big family. He has met my (25F) parents, siblings, etc.. I haven’t met anyone from his side. He says he’s brought me up, but he hasn’t taken that step to bring me around. Nor do I ever spend the night or spend any time at his house with his family. It’s always him spending the night or time at my place this entire year. I’ve met his two kids, he has met my son. I don’t understand why he hasn’t brought me around when he knows how I feel. I’ve tried to communicate this with him. The kids he has are with two different women. I’m wondering if this is why he doesn’t want to bring me around his family as he might feel ashamed. I don’t think it’s fair he always comes to me and I can never go to him.
TL;DR: boyfriend always spending time at my place but I can never go to his
Update: Thank you to everyone who has responded. I brought this up to him and he told me he’s going to set something up where I can meet his mother and family. He even invited me to a large family party coming up. His “excuse” was that his job where he worked 14-15 hour days was the reason why he never had time, but now that he’s quit he is going to make time. Told him I felt like a side piece and I wasn’t going to put up with it anymore.
Will keep you all posted.