Question: Is it feasible to be platonic close friends with a person after he (M 34) denied me (F 31) after sex?
We satisfied at a bar as well as we actually clicked so we wound up making love at my location. We were giggling and also teasing each various other the whole time. He requested for my number as well as we assembled the complying with week. As soon as for a stroll (we live near to each various other) and also when for supper.
After supper I returned to his area. Very same point, we had a great deal of enjoyable joking with each various other yet I began to capture sensations as well as asked if we might avoid sex. He was really considerate regarding it.
The complying with week we made loosened strategies however the day of he contacted us to allow me understand that he felt I was searching for something greater than he can offer. I was an irritated and also pain due to the fact that we had actually entered some seriously deep discussions by this factor. I allowed him recognize exactly how I really felt as well as we reviewed it and also finished favorably.
He did ask if we might be good friends as well as initially I claimed no due to the fact that I was injured however I really believe he would certainly be a friend. In the brief time with each other we had intellectual discussions as well as we both claimed we took pleasure in each various other’s business.
Is it feasible to be close friends or am I simply obtaining played?