Context: I'' m 45M as well as have no children of my very own however I'' m available to dating a female that has youngsters within some criteria. I'' d choose that the theoretical lady have 2 children at a lot of that are close to or in their adolescent years which she has a protection contract with the (agreeably separated) papa. These are choices based upon some experience. I'' m searching for a LTR so presume I'' d at some point communicate with the kids in some ability. I'' ve had ladies recommend they maintain their intimate as well as household lives totally different, however in technique it appears to seldom remain by doing this.
My difficulty: While a lot of ladies recognize if they have youngsters on the applications there'' s irregular details shared concerning the number/age of the children. Several solitary mamas blog post in their biography the number of youngsters as well as the ages – yet others put on'' t share any kind of information whatsoever. Every single time I match with a solitary mother that hasn ' t shared any type of details I at some point ask “the number of children do you have?” as well as whenever I obtain either an aggressive message (I'' ve been implicated of being '' scary ' as well as likewise ' judgmental ') or I merely obtain unequaled.
Am I being unreasonable asking solitary mommies the number of children they have? I wear'' t intend to throw away any person'' s time as well as I seem like it'' s a reasonable concern, yet possibly it'' s not ok to ask. Should I merely prevent solitary mothers as well as conserve everybody the irritation? Many thanks for your time.