Hey sensible people, I presume I’m searching for recognition or redirection.
I had a beverage with a man on Wednesday. The discussion streamed quickly, we finished with a contract that we both would certainly such as for there to be a “following time”.
Later on that night I sent out a message stating I rejoiced we reached hang around with each other.
I really did not listen to back till Sunday night. He shared that he had actually been “hibernating” which he was likewise delighted we hung out with each other, and also intended to do it once again.
I had not been distressed that I really did not speak with him, simply figured he had not been curious about a 2nd day.
Interaction as well as uniformity are essential to me, and also I do not intend to hang out with a person that requires to “hibernate” if that implies they quit of interaction.
Hearing from him 4 days after a day, is in fact much more frustrating than not learning through him in any way.
I do not wish to be extremely judgmental, however our good day is presently outweighed by his silence.
Ideas from the hive mind? Warning or dealbreaker?