I (42F) have actually been dating a man (40M) on as well as off for 4 months. He appears to be psychologically readily available, an engaged papa with his youngsters, and also simply on the whole a wonderful man. We see each various other 2 times a week as well as invest the evening with each other when we do not have our children.
He informed me he liked me after supper and also I simply looked at him amazed … I ultimately claimed I care a whole lot for him as well as he makes me satisfied however I really did not claim it back. He claimed he wishes that I expand to enjoy him due to the fact that he’s satisfied and also would certainly do anything for me.
I’ve been OLD for 3 years as well as I’ve experienced the most awful of the most awful – phonies, cheaters, mentally not available, problem drinkers, ghosters, and so on. So component of me seems like he is as well excellent to be real and also I’m waiting to see what sort of Mr. Hyde he might be concealing under this terrific person. (Ugh Pessimistic Patty!) I understand I appreciate him greatly and also I do not intend to shed him. Yet I’m not prepared to claim I enjoy you yet as well as possibly it is simply my concern of going done in once again.
So has anybody had a companion that really did not right away state it back yet you could feel they appreciated you and also they ultimately claimed it? When did you understand you loved your companion? How much time had you been dating prior to claiming ILY?
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