Ok – so my gf and also I have actually dated for 9 months. I feel she likes me and also is a great partner in general. Yet when she’s psychological/ when we’re in a warmed debate, she tends to exist or make things up. For instance, when I’m claiming points she did to me to disturb me, she’ll claim I “did so therefore to her a couple of weeks back” to also the rating. After that, I’ll call her out as well as claim it’s not real, and also at some point she’ll yield and also state sorry.
I’m so baffled regarding why she does this? I enjoy her a lot as well as I think she enjoys me, however when she combats with me, she simply wishes to win it seems like. She has stress and anxiety, clinical depression, and also a great deal of unpacked injury from her previous violent connection. She is beginning treatment quickly.
Will this ever before be taken care of by treatment? Why does she do this? Is it a typical instinctive reaction when she fears in a disagreement?
TLDR: Gf exists/ makes things up around points I do to her when we battle to even the rating. I’m clever sufficient to call her out on it, however it’s terrifying as well as unsafe that she does this.