My other half (25f) and also I (27m) have actually shared each others phone passwords for a number of years currently. Eventually I obtain a dreadful sensation that she’s been concealing something so I undergo her messages and also discover a discussion in between her as well as a shared buddy of ours. My better half primarily claimed that she “could be signing up with the solitary moms and dads club in 18 years or much less” as well as later on speak about having a “strategy” to leave yet does not understand just how to tackle it. I wish to bring this up and also I’ve attempted to speak to her regarding if she intends to exercise out connection or simply leave. She’s informed me she wishes to function it out yet with exactly how current the messages are, I do not see her intending to function points out. Exactly how can I set about bringing this up? Should I inform her I experienced her messages? Should I not inform her?
For context, we have a 2 years of age. She functions 2nd change, I function initially.