I (17F) made this buddy in 2014 in course and also within the initial 2 days of understanding him he began to be truly sensitive with me, yet I kinda simply combed it off as absolutely nothing since I assumed he was simply extremely pleasant and also sensitive. After a pair weeks of that I was welcomed to a Discord web server that he was likewise in as well as he included me as a close friend.
The touching proceeded personally as well as he began embracing me, initially I enjoyed as well as thanked him for the hug due to the fact that I enjoy hugs however after that later in the week he began messaging me as well as sexualizing me a great deal. He would certainly send out memes that would certainly recommend several sex-related points and afterwards state “I would not mind”, he would certainly ask me concerns concerning sex as well as if I would certainly ride him, he would certainly transform every innocent remark I made sex-related (ex lover. “Sorry I’m truly completely dry today” like, very little to discuss kinda point as well as he would certainly claim “Well I can certainly obtain you damp”), he would certainly call me mommy, make remarks concerning fucking me, me offering him head, whatever, you understand. A lot of the moment I would certainly simply draw away the discussion to various other points or simply stop.
After those discussions I ended up being actually uneasy with the suggestion of a person like that touching me and also embracing me and also things. A lot of discussions in Discord as well as the real world would certainly wind up sex-related with him about as well as he began following me around like a shed young puppy according to my close friends. I began to prevent him a little bit due to the fact that he actually freaked me out, as well as he figured that out along with that I obtain terrified truly quickly as well as began to jumpscare me typically and also I seem like it was so he can touch me/be around me once again. I was constantly truly gone nuts whenever he did that and also I informed him that yet he still would not leave me alone. After that summer season occurred and also he texted me virtually weekly asking to socialize with me as well as I simply stated I was also hectic which was mainly real. Institution began once again as well as on the very first day back I was concealing from him outside waiting on my good friends and also he in some way saw me, jumpscared me and afterwards vigorously brought me right into a hug. I am 5″ 4 as well as he is 6″ 7 so when he does that it’s actually suffocating as well as I really feel paralyzed as well as powerless. I informed him right afterwards hug that I was not comfy with his practices with me in all as well as he claimed he comprehended. The complying with day absolutely nothing truly altered.
This continued for weeks and afterwards I determined to send him a message on Discord regarding it (modify: my moms and dads assisted me draw up the message after I informed them regarding it). I generally claimed that I seem like he sees me as greater than a close friend which makes me and also others uneasy in addition to the touching as well as I required some room. He generally stated “No trouble, I recognize my activities have actually made individuals unpleasant prior to I’m simply actually pleasant. Take as much time as you require.” The complying with day once more absolutely nothing truly transformed. He withdrawed a bit with the touching however still rested straight next to me, and also would not leave me alone.
That was 2 months back. Absolutely nothings actually altered. I’m so made with whatever. My twin bro generally informed my entire close friend team what was taking place when he asked if they assume he might take him on a battle. I’ve spoken to them, this person makes every one of them awkward as well with his activities. Everybody that understands has actually backed me up and also are furious, nobody likes him yet he has nothing else buddies to head to at lunch. I can not inform him off entirely since we have a course along with a shared good friend so it’s not like I can maintain this from her without finishing my relationship with her, or his relationship with me.
TL; DR: My (17F) buddy (17M) is extremely sensitive as well as sexualizes me continuously as well as in spite of me asking him to quit numerous times he hasn’t altered. I’m truthfully not exactly sure what else I can state to him now as well as ai can not totally reduced him off since we have a shared close friend.
I’m so determined for assistance, anything would certainly be so significantly valued!
modify: I’ve checked out these reactions and also I’ve discovered them all extremely handy, I simply do not have time to react now. I uploaded this at an extremely inadequate time as I have job currently however I actually value these remarks !!
edit 2: Holy smokes simply left job, this is a whole lot even more remarks than I anticipated. It’ll take a while to return to every person! I truly value all the suggestions however, I’m really feeling a great deal much less defenseless in this circumstance as well as there’s been a great deal of points that have actually cleared so thanks a lot to everybody