I was stunned to learn through him. We had actually type of ghosted each various other the last time we linked. I had actually whined to him I really did not really feel highly regarded (I just spoke with him when he desired sex and also I obtained tired of sensation made use of) and also I thought he understood he could not provide anything even more. In any case when he messaged me I had not been certain if I ought to react simply to state I mored than happy in a brand-new partnership as well as use a pleasant conversation to see just how he was doing. However after I considered comparable messages on Reddit concerning the comparable scenarios I understood he was most likely just connecting since he discovered himself in a drought as well as was intending to attach assuming I would certainly still be readily available for that. So I simply removed and also obstructed him. I simply wished to give thanks to the smart individuals on Reddit for aiding me see that it was no usage messaging him back. It could endanger my present connection as well as it’s additional evidence he just saw me as an electrical outlet for sex and also absolutely nothing even more. I was not great at having fwb scenario since the good friend section of that phrase seldom exists and also I understood I constantly required greater than simply a f * ck friend. I seem like I was right by not reacting however interested what others could believe.