primarily what title states. i’m an university student that’s been seeing this set woman for regarding 2 months and also points have actually been considerably ending up being rather significant. nonetheless, i broke short points tonite.
she had actually informed me in the past that she would certainly messed around with tougher medications like coke in the past, yet i presumed she had not been truly still. after that today when she came by she made an off handed comment concerning exactly how she had actually gotten on 6 compounds today (coke, adderall, weed, alcohol, whippets, and also i neglected what else).
currently, i beverage and also smoke weed rather regularly so i really did not appreciate that, yet every one of the various other things truly scrubed me the upside-down. i increased it as something i’m simply not comfy with, specifically if we were mosting likely to end up being much more severe. she basically claimed in return, “it does not actually impact you, so why do you care? i’m not simply mosting likely to amazingly have the ability to deal with the method i manage every one of things i’ve been with.”
i attempted discussing that from my experience, when you’re in a partnership, damages you’re doing to on your own damages the various other individual also because they really care. additionally, it does not bode well if that’s just how somebody deals … (i really did not claim that ofc)
i really feel terrible. i actually like her and also she was incredibly anxious that this was a dealbreaker for me. i hate that i’ve made her seem like an enemy not worthy of love. am i being as well close minded? or am i warranted in discovering this to be premises to finish points? any kind of various other ideas valued. no concept whether i’ve screwed up severely or stood real to myself.