Me(34M) as well as my partner (29F) had a conversation last evening regarding our sex life. Generally points are excellent, nevertheless one concern that has actually been just recently raised by myself.
The problem is that whenever we make love my objective is to see to it she leaves initially. When that occurs she is usually done and also informs me to maintain going up until I complete. This is where my concern begins. If I determine to proceed she simply lays there, doesn'' t actually do anything, no moaning, absolutely nothing to make it look like she is appreciating herself. This actually eliminates the state of mind for me as well as makes it challenging for me to get to an orgasm.
After we spoke about it, she informed me that she “believed that is what many people suched as” which I “am the only individual she recognizes” that doesn'' t like that.
So my inquiry for you Reddit is do you like or desire your companion to simply lay there without expression of satisfaction or enjoyment?