Late 30s, F, straight, San Francisco. I see all these comments about people not taking dates seriously because they are spoiled for choice. Is this really the case? I know a few other single people my age, and barely any app matches convert to first dates, and even fewer go beyond. Personally, I have had only 4 second dates since the start of the year even though I have been very active on Hinge. A majority of the people I have matched with seem to still be active on the app.
And if my experience resonates with others, why then are people so callous when things do seem promising (for eg. just got ghosted after a second date that ended up at my place).
I'd love to hear about people's experiences!