I made this offhand account simply to air vent. There truly isn’t far more to claim concerning the title. I was totally blindsided by my partner concerning 2 months ago that she’s “morally non-monogamous” as well as has actually been seeing somebody without me recognizing (the total paradox).
The other half as well as I have actually constantly had a terrific partnership, we connected our sensations, had challenging discussions, had healthy and balanced disputes, and so on. We were constantly considerate of each various other and also I believed we had a really open and also straightforward connection. I have 2 kids, they are not hers, I presume I’ve constantly neglected exactly how cool she’s treated them because the start. My child also advised me that “she’s not wonderful father, I do not obtain why you like her”. Currently I seem like spunk and also a horrible daddy for overlooking a remark like that.
Back to the subject handy, she has actually been seeing this man for practically a year currently. I’ve never ever fulfilled him face to face, I seem like I would certainly shed it if I did. She never ever informs me when she’s visiting him and now I simply presume an extended period of time prior to I learn through her once again suggests they’re doing whatever.
I’m not ENM, I’m quite typical when it involves partnerships. I desire the commitment and also regard repaid to me. The last 2 months have actually been harsh as I have actually articulated to her I do not like this and also she does not appear to care. Obviously, I’m speaking to a separation lawyer as well as I’m attempting to obtain this done rapidly.
TL; DR: My better half informs me she’s ENM a year after being wed. I’m blindsided. Currently planning for a separation as I can not overcome it.
After being 5 years with each other, wed for one, my (35 M) other half (34 F) informs me she’s fairly non-monogamous. Back to the subject at hand, she has actually been seeing this individual for nearly a year currently. TL; DR: My better half informs me she’s ENM a year after being wed.